Thursday, November 4, 2010

Memories of an African Childhood: Girls’ Dance Night

I was startled from my slumber by light drizzles. I must have slept for a whole day. Ouch! I am hungry. Where am I? Oh my, you mean I have been sleeping here all alone?  Thank heavens, when did John Boss join me? Faithful dog, he could not leave his pal alone!

Standing, stretching and yawning followed. My shadow was long, it must have been around 4 PM or so.  But this is the season of joie de vivre and nobody cares about time. No cattle to herd, no water to fetch no school to think of, life is an endless dolce far niente! 

Plodding back to the party house, I noted that I was not the only one who had succumbed to the beckoning winks of sweet sleep. Half the people were in various stages of sleeping. A few were coiled in the armchairs, with saliva drooling from their mouths. Some were snoring like dogs about to bite each other. Others were dreaming, I think of eating, going by the way they chewed and swallowed in their sleep. The remaining half is the beer diehards and acolytes of the holy drink. An old man, Kipchekek, was squinted swigging from a straw that never left his mouth. His face assumed a depression on his cheeks; I feared his squint and depression would be permanent. The rest were slugging from tins, Mr. Sirma’s moustache had trapped some dregs to assume a white color. You should have seen the drunkards laugh; (which was too often) their teeth were plastered invisible with white dregs of beer. Thank God kissing was nonexistent then, I would have pitied their wives no end.

 Music was in the normal volume even though our venerable DJ was half asleep, half awake. A boy and a gal competed on the dance floor even though all they did was salute with the right hand on the forehead as the left hand held the stomach. It was like they wanted to communicate in a subtle way that their heads were throbbing and not forgetting a bad case of stomach upset. They were dancing anyway.

Ouch, I am so famished! I dashed to the kitchen and was served with ugali and beef stew. If I had stayed for a minute longer, I would have died. James’s mom told me to trace my friend Kipsang and my brothers after eating my full.

Sporadic ululations of ariri riiiiiiiiiiiiii! kongoi James here and there. Mr. Sirma is ululating too, coiled in his seat, head dropped to his shoulder, eyes closed. I wondered whether he was dreaming or it was a deliberate act. All the same he mumbled aririri riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! Kongoi James!

Empty beer pots were sprawled outside in the shade, no wonder everybody was out of their senses. A dutiful looking group of girls are washing dishes. I pitied them though they seemed to enjoy what they were doing. There is something with girls, whenever they do anything, they make it seem effortless and delightful. I have never quite understood how somebody could enjoy working.

I caught up with my brothers and Kipsang in the maize store, dead asleep. I gave them each a poke on the ribs. They persisted on sleeping, I insisted on rousing them. They woke up with a personal style each. One just stretched, another farted while the other did both. They all had bloodshot eyes.

 It was time to get moving again. Thanks to the drizzles, we would have been late for the girls’ dance night, now just an hour away.

It will be a busy night unlike the previous night. Girls dances are full of action unlike their male counterparts whose difference with the rest of the crowd was Korosiot tightly clutched on the chest sans movement. With girls it was music, song and dance. Pageantry, dance and a fashion show all at once, indeed, pomp and glamour was the axiom.

Our first job was to make a quick itinerary. First stop: Kap Pewa. Chemolel, Kipsang ex-lover was the initiate and from the rehearsal reviews, was tipped to be the best dancer in the entire Rotik village .Besides; it was my school desk-mate Chesiliot’s home. The second port of call would be Kap Jonathan where Memo, Kipsang’s cousin was an initiate. They are our close family friends too. Third home would be Arap Korir, Chebet and Cherono, identical twins were the other big attraction of the night. After that we go to the next village of Takitech where all the initiates would meet for the final dance of the night.

The plastic watch in my brother’s wrist reads 5.30 PM.

When you descend the path that passes through Juliana’s house and ascend to the hillock by Obot Samwel’s house and take the road by momonik trees, over the white shiny stones, and cross the road that connects to Kissii, you arrive at Kap Pewa.

Kap Pewa’s large grass-thatched mud house stands on a level dug-out red earth ground but from the road where we approached it, is a sloping high ground. When you sit down on the green grass, you would see all the actions in the compound without the risk of anybody seated in front obstructing you. It was like a stadium though it was hardly planned to be so.

 When we got there, we found a few women and children already seated on the terraces. We secured a place in front and sat waiting for the action to start. We could not afford to wait!

Chemolel, the initiate is standing in the centre of the arena, near mabwaita, having her final touches done. Not touches of make-up or coiffure, no, the regalia that was the dancing costumes. Chemolel was too cute for any make-up and initiates shave off all hairs before initiation. (All hairs except eye lashes and eye brows!) I could hardly recognize her, save for the brown color of her ears and thighs. ( Kipsang was more acquainted with her thighs more than me and he went on to describe to me in finer details how the thighs looked at the intersection above).

On her wrists, hang two black whisks (ngotinik) made from the tails of wildebeests. On her shoulders were suspended hairy furs (koroitik) made from colobus monkey skins. She was wearing a very skimpy trouser tied round with a blue cloth. On her bum hang loose a beaded skin with shiny decorations (ng’oisit). Like a tail, though very broad. On both thighs were mounted a bunch of metal jingles (kipkururoik) and a single jingle on each ankle. She wore a shiny shirt with green sashes across her bosom (botisiot). On her face was a mask made of ivory (keldet). On her head was a blue cloth head gear (chepkulet) with support inside to stand leaning backwards. It was mounted a small blinking torch bulb that swung whenever she moved her head.



A whistle (sirimbit) and a flute (kondia) hang suspended from her neck on strings. A white hanky was pinned to her shirt by the boobs. She wore blue rubber shoes and spotless white socks. Chemolel simply looked piquant!

We just sat there staring at her.

She blew her whistle and jumped about, just a taste of what to come. The crowd was agog. Her escort, a   younger girl (non-initiate who accompanied her on the dance) stepped on the arena, whistle in mouth, and dared her for a dance. They sized each other like two fighting cocks, dancing around each other. The crowd cheered. People nudged each other and started talking about her delectable dance moves.

Whoa! Whoa! They were just testing the costumes. The man responsible for dressing her (in most cases a man who will eventually marry her) ushered her to stop and made a few adjustments. Assured that all was working, he gave her the go-ahead to do the dance proper.

By mabwaita, where a fire was lit as usual, the initiate made a few rounds of dancing. All was quiet except the music made from her jingles, jumping and the whistle. Her steps were bewitching. Music in the house was stopped. Men and women streamed out, holding tins of beers. All were excited. They danced around Chemolel saying: “sing baby sing!”

It is getting dark. The monkeys in the hill of Arap Sigei are yapping kiauu! In quick succession. The echoes reverberate all over the ridge. I imagined they were cheering the dance too and felt sad that nightfall will cut them off the action. The crowd is numbering close to two hundred people now, all are seated.

Her companion steps into the arena. A dance of leaping and claapping thighs ensues. No singing yet. It is like a mime with a whistle and the thud thud of steps as accompaniment.  They dance round Chemolel’s mom, around her dad and finally round the shrine.

 It is some minutes past 7 PM. The monkeys are quiet in the hill. I am grateful to be human!

 A brief consultation between the initiate and her companion. (Unlike boys, girls have a dance routine that took months of rehearsing. They also learn old songs as well compose their own.) After consultation, they blew whistles and danced to different directions, they then danced round in a circle making to catch each other yet evading contact whenever they got close. They then danced back to the center where Chemolel pelts out the classic song ‘sarah sarah’:

Initiate: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah non chebo Mosoin oh Sarah (Sarah oh Sarah the daughter of Mosoin)
Crowd: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah non chebo Mosoin oh Sarah

Initiate: amose che u buch sarah ko nyolji koinyon oh sarah (I will pass the circumcision easily as befit our home)
Crowd: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah non chebo Mosoin oh Sarah

Initiate: amose che u buch sarah sindanut ak usit oh sarah (I will make minced meat of it like sewing with a needle and thread)
Crowd: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah non chebo Mosoin oh Sarah

Initiate: kibire che u buch sarah ye rorwech kebwan gaa oh sarah (we will pass it like it is nothing but if it is not equal to us we just come home)
Crowd: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah non chebo Mosoin oh Sarah

At this juncture, spectators are on their feet, some are swaying while others are jumping in tandem with Chemolel. Chemolel’s mother assumes the role of soloist. Chemolel dances around her and sings the chorus with the rest.

Soloist: tun iwe Chemolel sarah, tun iwe Chemolel sarah konyolchi koinyon o sarah
Crowd: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah non chebo Mosoin oh Sarah

Soloist: mebarte mamang’ung sarah koriran en chepkomon oh sarah oh (don’t betray your mom and make her cry along the hedge towards home in shame)
Crowd: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah non chebo Mosoin oh Sarah

Soloist: ak tun iwe cherukwen sarah ak iwe cherukwen sarah kwa kekas en Cheboyo sarah oh( may you pass you middle born till it is heard afar in Cheboyo)
Crowd: Sarah Sarah oh Sarah no chebo Mosoin oh Sarah

Chemolel’s mom is overcome with emotions and burst into tears leaving the scene. Chemolel is sweating and she wipes her face with her white hanky. Men are screaming and brandishing swords menacingly. The crowd press close to Chemolel but a man threatens them with a whip shouting sois! Sois!  (Meaning ‘space’)

Chemolel and her companion entertain the crowd with flutes as they take a breather.  The crowd, many of whom are drunk rock to the tune. Drunken mothers with hapless babies jump around tossing the otherwise would- be- asleep babies up and down. Chemolel decided to pelt another song, a classic called Kabindegei ‘airplane’. (This song was composed by a woman who was awed by a scene of an airplane spraying tea bushes in Kericho- a 70 kilometer journey from our village.)

Chemolel: Kabindegei ie oee robonchin chai, elego lolego, elego lolege, lolego iee! (oh aeroplane raining on the tea bushes…)
Crowd: Kabindegei ie oee robonchin chai, iee

Chemolel: kibire cheu buch, kibire che u buch tangoitab kobtige iee ( we will pass that small issue of women holding each other- girls are circumcised one holding the other)
Crowd: Kabindegei ie oee robonchin chai, iee

The song goes all the way to a climax. This is the best song for a dance and Chemolel wows everybody with her steps.( How an initiate sings and dances is not just entertainment on her part. It is used to weigh who can make a good wife. Women use this opportunity to scout wives for their sons. The sulky and reluctant are struck off the list of possible brides. The cheery and passionate are recommended and thereafter a race to win her heart and her mom’s assent begins in earnest.)

Tired, the initiate is brought for soda to quench her thirst. Another song, ‘teigot inye johana ak iwe Kericho’ – ‘just build your house Johana and leave for Kericho’. This song is a figurative advice to a man to make sure that her newly-wed has conceived before he leaves for work in the distant town of Kericho.

The fourth song is the most dramatic of them all. It is called kete ng’o garit?  -‘Who rides the vehicle’?  The crowd is very interested in knowing who will eventually marry the initiate after she graduates. So they will ask her in a song who ‘rides the vehicle’? The initiate employs all diversionary tactics to evade the question by giving indirect answers. Finally when the crowd becomes intransigent, she would name the lucky husband-to-be.

Soloist: kete ng’o karit kete ng’o kwandap malakwen kete ng’o? (who rides the vehicle or is it the father of Malakwen?- read anybody)
Initiate: kete ng’o karit kete ng’o kwandap malakwen kete ng’o?

Soloist: kete ng’o karit kete ng’o kete sonjoek kete ng’o? (who rides the vehicle or is it just crazy men?)
Initiate: Kete ng’o karit kete ng’o kete murenik, kete ng’o( it is the men who rides the vehicle)

Soloist: kete ng’o karit kete ng’o kwandap malakwen kete ng’o?
Initiate: kete ng’o karit kete ng’o kete Christopher kete ng’o (Christopher rides the vehicle)

At last the initiate has mentioned her boyfriend and the crowd goes wild with jubilation for the lucky guy. Christopher jumps and yells uncontrollably. From now on, he stands as a bodyguard to the initiate.

The song and dance continues at Kap Pewa as we leave for other homes. The motive is to see as many dances as possible. This appetite is fed by the curiosity to see the different costumes worn by different initiates, the different dance styles and hear new tunes. The dances would be the rave of the village for weeks to come.

It is raining but we are not deterred. We fall and pick ourselves up in the muddy tracks leading to various homes. The scripts are the same save for the actors and nuances of styles.

At Arap Korir, earlier billed as the hottest dance of the night, the twins are in a fierce competition. The crowd is the biggest I have ever seen and more excited than in a rock concert. You could not differentiate the young from the old; everybody was on their feet, singing, dancing, jumping or just swaying to the songs. One of the twins, Chebet is a stiff dancer but a good lyricist. She drives the crowd to tears with one composition after the other. She sung and the crowd danced. It was difficult to notice that she was a poor dancer for she everybody dance for her with her soothing voice.

Cherono, the other twin was such a good dancer she stole everybody’s heart. Her incandescent eyes warmed my heart as she jumped from one spot to the next. She could not sing much but her emotions showed from the movement of her body. I was moved to tears without knowing, just by staring at her. I turned to the people standing around me and all were either wiping tears or struggling to contain them.

The crowd was lost as to who was the girl of the night between the two. Their act was talked for many years to come. It became part of the village lore and to date, the jury is still out as to which twin won that night. They are old mothers nowadays. If it was a vote, I would have simply opted to abstain.

 We left them competing.

We set off for the distant hills of Takitech for more dances. At Kap Robon, we found the initiate being oiled (kailet) as a way of blessing. Next, a gramophone was brought out. A record was played for her to dance with her mom and dad. The dance was such a spectacle the crowd went wild. Shhhh!  I see mom with little baby sister Zeddy on her back! We melted into thin air like thieves in case she would ask us to go home or reprimand us for one thing or another. What a lucky escape!

At Kamusanya, we just sat on the steps as we watched Chepkoech sing her heart out. Here, it was different because her long term boyfriend was present and was dancing with her. She brought out some cigarettes and lighted one for him. She sung her own composition called achomin we kimolel- ‘I love you fair skinned man’ as he smoked and blew smoke on her.  

We sat in a vantage place and watched them perform their ballad. Since this was to be the home of robet , where all the girl initiates would showcase their final dance of their childhood, we shifted our position and made ourselves comfy perched in the cold branches of a tree nearby. We knew there would be thousands upon thousands of spectators and our short necks stood no chance of a glimpse of the action in those circumstances. In case anybody had missed a chance to watch a girl dance in her home because of distance or time, then that was the place to catch up with her. That accounts for the mammoth crowd.

It reached that time again when Chepkoech had to be seated and lectured on courage, family honor and on the disgrace that will befell the family if she even dared move her eyeball during the circumcision.


The drama was just the same as boys. The threats were the same too. Men and women talked and cried. Tempers flared, emotions rose.

From a distance I heard whistles and yells and jingles. From our viewpoint, we could see so many lights approaching. I knew what was about to happen. That time of electrifying magic, the apogee of the night: girls dance night finale. The jingles and whistles got nearer and nearer.

One initiate arrived with a lot of fanfare. Men accompanying were dressed in shorts and funky headgears, they all carried drawn swords. Their girl stepped into the arena. Chepkoech approached her and danced with her, blowing whistles. The two danced round and round as the men accompanying her competed in jumping with those they had found in the compound. I was spoilt for choice as to what to watch; the real show or the sideshow?

 Many initiates arrived to be received by the ones who arrived earlier in the same version.

Our girl Chemolel arrived and we yelled and shook the branches we were seated on to everybody’s surprise. Nobody had noticed us up there. Chemolel danced to the bottom of the tree and we sang alongside her atop the tree shaking the branches as accompaniment. I feared I would fall. We threw leaves at her and added to her costumes. The whole crowd watched, cheered and we stole the show. Kipsang was happy for he had inadvertently bid goodbye to her childhood sweetheart in an unprecedented performance.

Christopher, who was to marry her, jumped hurting his head with the branches that overarched to where he was standing. His head was bleeding but he didn’t stop. He jumped yelling and saying ‘simit mbel!’-( cement and slippers!- cemented houses were rare and it was said in cemented homes, people put on slippers. Christopher was alluding to the fact that his girl was high class)

Men picked quarrels in the crowd and fought each other but nobody had time for such. All they did was admire the bevy of beautiful girls dancing and competing in the arena. The best dancers stood out though it was not easy in a crowd of fifty plus girls.

This was the peak of the night! As a final act, two girls were picked at a time to dance on the arena as the others sat and watched. The crowd would divide and cheer their best, a stampede would ensue and people would fall and roll on the red cake of mud, they didn’t leave however muddied.

It is 3 AM.

The initiates have to leave. From here onwards, it was then a women’s affair. They danced round mabwaita three times (NB:  boys go round it four times) and left blowing their whistles till they faded into the distance. Women yelled too and shouted vulgar words directed at men, they were fully in charge here. No man in sight. They would resurface later at tatwet –circumcision field. At the cries of kang’u kwanda- ‘the father is smelling’, men would run to join them and witness the initiates get circumcised.

We climb down the tree and remained to enjoy the fire by the shrine. I didn’t notice what time I slept. I just woke up to see my jacket burning, oh God! I removed it, doused off the fire and woke my friends up.

The sounds of ariririiiiiiiiiiiii! were all over again. It was a sign that all the girls have triumphed the circumcision ordeal. We made for Arap Rob, for the third and last day of celebrations before the lashings from happy mothers with korosiot could get us.

It is 6 AM.

We take the path that runs along the hill to a breakfast of roast beef and tea in Rebeccas’s kitchen. The revelers seated in the party house were as drunk as we had left them the evening before. Some were sipping beer from straws, others from tins; others were asleep in their seats.

We ate with relish. I was tired but again wishing that the ceremonies would not end. This was to be the last day for me as an official visitor to Arap Rob. There were still many homes that were to initiate their children the following week but mom would not allow us to attend them uninvited.

After lunch of more fried beef ugali and mursik (sour milk added fine black coal), the music was ordered stopped and it was time for visitors to bid farewell (rotet). I was seated in a corner for I was there in place of my mom and dad who had gone to other homes to do the same too.

The father of the house Mr. Haraka, Up! Thanked all the visitors who made it to his house. James’s mother did the same. Next was the guest of honor. The modus operandi was you said your name, your clan and the clan of your mom. Next you explain why you attended the ceremony in the first place. After that, you gave out money, a goat or a cow as a way of appreciation for the reception.

My turn arrived:  “My name is Alfred Kiprotich son of David Barusei, of the Kilachei family, my clan (oret) is Kipcheromek and my mom’s clan (anue) Kapsigilaek. I am here on behalf on my family who were officially invited via a letter and a word of mouth. I have brought a goat as a sign of appreciation of your warm reception. We have had fun and we were well received. Thank you so much ak tun ketuitosi kou ra.( may we meet again in the same happy circumstances!)

When you have finished your rotet, you are served with roast meat and a kettle of beer. Here at rotet, however young you are, you are treated as your parents would have been treated.

The full introduction serve the purpose of getting acquainted with visitors from far off places. By the time you are done introducing yourself, somebody would declare you as his clans-mate or in-law or a distant relative.

It is 5 PM.

The celebration is officially over. Visitors from afar can stay for the night while those nearby like me leave. Rebecca gives me a piece of meat in a bowl to take home to mom. I descend the hill for home with my dog John Boss behind me. At home, I hit the sack to wake up the following day with a throbbing headache, hangover and fatigue. Off to the grazing fields was the next task awaiting me.

We meet again the next year!

7 comments:

  1. This is Magnificent!!!especially the way u describe CHEMOLEL,i can jst figure her out.. plus av learned alot of things i dint actually knw.. but that song of " sarah" i thought it went something like this..." SARAH SARAH OOH SARAH MOCHERON MOSOIN SARAH..."

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  2. yeah...was thinkin it goes like that too ..wl adjust accordingly...many thenkx

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  3. ........chemararen chesigisin o.......kiroben ano-?MONG'U AU?

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  4. at wot time are they going to be filed for the cut? i hear there is a song sang to to stop men frm having an erection-u knw d song?

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  5. Fred..i know the song...its goes like: obisonu si kosuren, obisonu...they spray unga in the woman's pussie as they sing so n men..ya dick will just coil in there...

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  6. heheheeeee.....so true, so natural i so identify with this!

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  7. It reminded me of what i used to do when i was 10, i could disappear from home for 4 days though knowing that i will be getting a spank of my life with sossiot from mum. But the ceremony, feasting, dancing and busaa was worth it
    Good work Manyun!!

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